LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (6)

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Thanks guys. She agreed to be out by Jan 5th. She put in an application for a place but it isn't available until the 5th.
Then last night she told me she paused the application because they want to do an employment verification and she didn't want to explain to her new boss why she is getting an apartment. I thought "not my problem. Your circus your monkeys". Then she said they would take proof of 6 months income which she will have once my equity loan closes and I pay her off.
She is definitely taking some steps in the right direction but she's going to need to come a lot further for this D not to go through. She recently admitted she was wrong to insult my family the way she has and she was wrong to say some of the nasty things she has said to me. It's not an apology but for her to say she was wrong is a big step.

This morning over text she asked if I was mad at her. I told her I'm not mad at you. I'm angry with you.
She said she didn't understand what that means.
I told her I wasn't sure she was in the right place emotionally to understand and accept my feelings. if she would be willing/able to put herself in my shoes. If she isn't it's ok it's just where she is right now but there wouldn't be a point expressing my feelings.
She said she would like to hear my feelings.
So I told her all the reasons I'm angry with her.
she said "I can see why that would make you feel angry."

This is another huge step for her. In the past she would have been defensive, told me why I shouldn't feel angry or fired back with how she feels about things.

Not enough but steps in the right direction.