This question you ask, "What if she told you she simply could not control herself with the OM?" is my W's additive personality. Once she tries something and likes it she keeps going and going even if she knows its bad for her.
Example, I tried to get W to stop going to Starbucks (that's just one of her additive habits she cannot control.. $,$$$ annually AND all those calories from the specialty drinks) for many years but earlier this year she simply stop going but is back at it.
So yes, I would say she simply can not control herself. I am so screwed!!
