Hi Raliced, Thanks for the update, its great to hear from you.

It is odd behaviour indeed from XH. It could be guilt of course - he's split the family up and it hasn't in fact made him any happier. Do you think he maybe never called you to get the girls when he was called in to work as a weird kind of show of defiance, you know to show you he can cope without asking you for help?

I hardly ever post on here now, and I was thinking about starting a new thread in surviving the big D, along with Sunny, Maybell and Claire. I read the updates on here almost every day and I still find inspiration.

Like you, I am not dating, and although I do like to flirt, I think its just a pleasant, ego-boosting distraction to be honest.

Anyway, I'm happy you're ok.


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014