Hi focus22. I hope to draw inspiration from your GAL activities! Very proud of you for soldiering on and for your remarkable strength. It's interesting how horrible we are in our S eyes. Funny thing here is that they don't seem incredibly excited about having moved on. I expected my wife to be prancing happily about after she left but she just seemed very angry. I predict that your husband will go through a good bit of anger as well. Do not however try to rationalize or explain his behavior because even the greatest minds in the psychological world can not do that. Your husband and my wife had something trigger in them that makes up seem down and left seem right. We have to allow them to work their way through that and in the meantime make ourselves as happy and healthy as we possibly can. Keep buying those sexy clothes and plaster on a smile and get out and drive the boys crazy! Have a fun weekend.
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.