Pho- that sounds terrible! And I'm not sure if you intended it that way, but it's another good deterrent from disclosing what I know.

However, if asked directly I'm not going to lie. I just refuse to volunteer too much information. If the topic of whether the OM can come over comes up I may just have to say he's not welcome in the house and that we had a falling out. Leave the details vague ("I just don't want to talk about it right now..."). Or maybe strategically leave the house (although this feels like running away to me).

Not sure what the better way to deal with this, but I'm open to suggestions. Any thoughts?

Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou