hey isittoolate,

You have mentioned this to me before, love language. You think I would know what hers is, I have narrowed it down to three options, Quality time, gifts, physical touch.

I think mine would be acts of service , physical touch and affirmation.

She is definitely getting some quality time right now as a family, although I am still GALing.

No touch, but with last night I can try more. There is no reason I cant touch her back as I try to get past her in the hall?

And gifts, well I did show up the other day with stocking stuff for the kids.

I think it says something to how we don't share two of the three love languages. This is a new concept for me. In the past I would think she would want what I want. but now I can see I was wrong.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016