Ok, a little shift in this convo... Looking for an answer to a question I haven't seen answered. I am taking S4 to finish up Christmas shopping. He had brought up about a week ago that he wanted to get his mom a gift. I do not want to even acknowledge the holiday to her, but do I allow him to pick her something small from just him?


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home