Gmum,

You dont have to be D to get help as a single mother if he does not live with you. You can get your child care paid for, or at least most of it. It is easy to apply for and get insurance and WIC (food stamps). They even help pay for an apartment or help you get a job if you just go and ask. It cant hurt to see what you might qualify for. You might be surprised.

One rule they might have is you must take him in for maximum child support. This is a little stressful, but once you get through it, you wont believe how independent you feel.

Yes, this will be stressful on him. Honey, you have to stop worrying about that right now.

You are about to move to another continent so he is not stressed???? He|| no! Move because that is where you will be happiest. Move because it is best for your child. Move because your psychic told you to, but never move so it is easier on him right now. And dont feel you have no other options. You are in America, you have options all over the place!


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!