Not filed yet, or at least not in the system yet.
I do not believe she has the funds but I'm sure she could borrow it if needed.
I've read a lot of post that say "do what works". Since June, nothing has worked towards the M.
Dropping the rope means to lose any hope of R. Whoever invented the phrase "Hope is a dangerous thing" was on the money.
I have felt numb since BD, but never more than today.
For the first time in months, it is hard to function. I'll continue pleasantly detaching, but I feel the urge to break all 37 rules today in a big way.


Me-40's
W- 40's
Married 22, Together 29
BD#1- 6/15 W needs space
BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16
Still both home, but not for long