I am thinking about the line "being someone's second choice has consequences" and what that might mean literally. Sometimes I need a 2x4. The consequences I think are that I should detach. That I shouldn't be too easy. Not in a game playing way, but in an honest way.
I'm no expert.... But this is what I think...
Being someone's 2nd choice, comes from a place of no respect, attraction, etc (RE: Coach's comment on Fire). Being a second choice means there is no fire.
I think Being someone's second choice means they put in less. Which, because a relationship is like a seesaw, means the other person puts in more. Consequence we push them away.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
