I've been following you, but I can't remember if I've posted yet. I'm so glad to see things slowly improving for you. It's hard to stay patient, but I try to remember how long my W felt horrible in my marriage. Those feelings don't end right away and will take a very long time to heal.
Which is why it feels like I'm trying to domesticate a wild animal at times, cautiously feeding my W emotional support....
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou