It really helped me see that I'm only responsible for me. You don't owe him anything. He may have a good heart, but he has left you wondering, waiting and in the dark for years until HE was ready to move. From my side of the fence, things didn't turn in terms of Matt having any interest in me until I mirrored the same type of treatment I was getting.
You paid TWO MORTGAGES... You have been civil and handled things for him that a grown man should be handling himself.
You may get upset with me Bright, but you seem to enable him.
It sounds, to me, like he has someone in his life and he is now ready to move forward so they can enjoy their lives in the condo.
I know I didn't always follow DB protocol... But, I have to say... At this stage... I can see Matt didn't give a rat's a$$ about me for most of this ordeal. It's a hard pill, but it's the truth. I'm not sure he is capable of feeling anything real at this point.
Take care of YOU. Get yourself to a place where your life is better than it EVER would have been with this cowardly, parasitic man.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
