Melweb, it sounds like the Rx is the right one for him then. I know some people add wellbutrin to the lex to help with the libido, but then again if he is going through a MLC right now maybe its better that his libido is low?
You don't feel like you are doing well because you are dealing with quite possibly the biggest trauma you will ever face in life. It is going to take a long time to get through this, whichever way it works out, it is a long journey. Which is why taking care of yourself, and sleep is a big part of that, is so important.
I am glad you are on this forum, I wish I had found it earlier. Trust me, for 1 month post BD you are doing well.
