Signed the D papers yesterday. W and movers coming this morning for the final move-out.
I still don't agree with her decision, but it is/was her decision. I would re-commit were she to have a change of heart and demonstrate it over time with her actions. I can't see that happening. The kind of work and honesty involved with that is, frankly, not something she is capable of at this point in her life, at least in my thinking based on what I have seen and known about her over the years. In her life, since a teenager, she has made big messes and always run away eventually to leave others to clean up and repair the damage while she moves on to the next mess. Had she stuck with the M and done the work, this would have been the first time she honored a major commitment in her life or had not ran around, business as usual.
So I've accepted her decision fully as well as the consequences.
No looking back, and taking the future one day at a time.
