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My WH is compulsive, spending, gambling, smoking, OW.

I refused to give him cash, I am struggling with my Fins. Really struggling and short of cash. I could find the cash if I wanted but I am reversing my own sitch.

WH has become really unpleasant about it, so I am NC completely. I understand his ways are leading him to destruction. It is not my job to rescue him or to even begin to do so. He may find an OW who will. He told a friend he was going to be a gigglo. She said he already is V.

What will you do, keep paying for the rest of your life?


So what are you boundaries on money?

What will be the consequences of non compliance?

How will you enforce the boundaries and non compliance?

V