Hi.
S and I going back home for a week to see parents for the first time since the split. We'll be back just before New Year. They want to shower us with affectiOn which will be nice. On the 31st there is a traditional run in the evening which S and I will sign up for ( although he will be going with friends, not with his old dad!) and then I don't know. In-laws have proposed something but I keep hearing that W wants to come to. I don't understand! What about OM? If she intends to go a friend has invited me over to her family saying she'd be happy to be Plan B, which is sweet. I texted W late last night saying no thanks for NYD birthday meal then deleted the chat. I imagine she has seen it but she hasn't replied. Almost makes me doubt she has seen it I emailed her this morning about finances and she made no reference to my reply, we texted purely financial details. Game playing or technical glitch? I'm not going to text again until S returns. I can always remind her to invite him then.
After NYD I don't know if to suggest taking him for a couple of days to W's parents as he has already told me he won't go with W. His grandparents want to see him and me, although it won't be a comfortable experience. I won't make him. What he really wants to do is stay at home and hang out with friends. Normal for 15 yr old.


Me:48
W:45
S:15
M:17
T: 25
Separated: Oct 2015