Good for you. With the phone, I've found it helpful to give myself some 'time off.' H tends to contact me by email, and I check my emails pretty much every day on ipad, but I took the email account he uses off my phone. So, if I'm out and about I won't 'receive' an email from him. I'll only get it 'on my terms' when I choose to check my emails.
He doesn't contact me much anyway, but I have found it quite freeing to do that. Gives me a little more control - unbeknown to anyone else of course!
So, with the holidays approaching, are you reaching out to people and extending/accepting invites? This is a good time to do that and make sure you have things planned in the calendar for the festive period. Last year I felt I just had to 'get through' Xmas, but this year is rather better. It would be great to have a plan for NYD when you have that invite from your W - drop S off (looking nice & smelling good - tho not OTT - but defo a guy who has somewhere to be )
Take care x
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
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