Hi Bright - so glad you had a good day today. I've been thinking of you.
Be very careful of making a financial decision with your heart. I am not at all suggesting that you rake him over the coals. But, it seems like you should sit down and really figure out the math on this condo situation. He is mentioning his diminished 401k so he is certainly looking out for himself. Make sure you as looking out for you, too.
It sounds like he fell on some hard financial times that impacted him. Of course these things happen in life. In marriage, we stand by our spouses through richer or poorer. Be sure to make decisions with a calculator and logic. Be compassionate toward yourself.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
