Mahhhty, thanks for posting. I am thinking about the line "being someone's second choice has consequences" and what that might mean literally. Sometimes I need a 2x4. The consequences I think are that I should detach. That I shouldn't be too easy. Not in a game playing way, but in an honest way. I am going to think on these words.
I wish I had found this board right after BD, I made so many mistakes for 4 months. I am going to look up Coach's posts. I wonder if they are still together?
