I will look into it. I go to my own IC and I am a part of quite a few online support groups. It seems like my husband has a sort of ptsd and with so many changes he broke. It makes me sad. He can go days without calling the boys. and then days were he is at my house for days. It is just all weird." He says my mom mistreated me, the Corps mistreated me. and you did too. I just want to be happy and that is not with you" Yesterday he called but I could not face it. I did not answer . He called today...sent it to vm. I texted an hour later and he said it was to "see how ya'll are doing" I just texted back...the kiddos are great. I have so much empathy for him. I know and can see how broken he is....but he has to fix himself