Well I don't want a D, but I know I will come to a cross road at some point. Have you ever heard of this waking up a WW with the reality what will happen? I have spoken to my attorney about other things and he has mentioned he has done several divorces over the past couple years and then the couple reconnects and have remarried months later. Crazy. Not the way I want it to happen. Just frustrated and I know that there is no magic bullet.