LBH, Nearly 2 Years (2)

[sandi2]

Sorry last night was rough on you. You need to STFU, and stop asking questions that you don't want to hear answered.

Yesterday evening, while W is cutting my hair I ask her how the dinner with the high school rep. She shares and to keep the conversation going I ask her who was there.

Look, you know exactly why you asked her who was there! You were fishing. Then you got more than you wanted. Don't set yourself up by asking your W questions, trying to find out about OM.

Then she tells me the OM was there (he carpooled out) and after the dinner she took him home (he lives 3 miles down the road from us). I can feel myself loosing it.. in that she took my car to work to take to dinner.. bought gas with my CC.. and drove him home?!? She tells me she did not go inside his place but sent time talking to him.

So, why have you continued to support her A?

W says he is just a friend but adds she understands that no matter what she says I don't believe her because I have already made up my mind on what's happening. How am I suppose to believe that based on all the sext I saw?!?

Whenever a woman chooses a male "friend" over the feelings of husband, then it's more than any friendship.

We go at it exchanging words for 1 hr.

She wouldn't be able to "go at it", if you wouldn't join in.

Me, I acknowledge her feelings but spill.. saying that it can never work with OM because he is there emotionally supporting so she can never work on us.. I begin to fall apart too.. saying stuff like did you tell <friends> about you and OM; why not? Why hide it if she enjoys his company?

Not exactly what a strong, attractive, confident man says at a time like this.