Thanks Sandi. I am focusing on myself more everyday. I just had these thoughts so I thought I needed to ask. We also have a daughter graduating from college this next weekend and of course Xmas. I know nothing will turn around before then, but it has been 11 months. I don't see W or text her anymore at this point. Only time I see her is when she comes to see daughter at house. Then I try to avoid her. Mainly for myself. It feels better not to have contact with her and it does help with obsessing about her so much. I have separated the bank acct., Took my name off CC. Other then insurances I really don't pay for anything for her. I thinking I am going to ask her to pay the insurances though. I guess that if she doesn't want to be in marriage she would have to pay these anyways. I do think more of myself then this and I really am trying to grasp whether I really want to forge ahead after the first of the year. Sandi my wife stated she is afraid to get divorced to our daughter. Does this mean anything to you? Does she seem to think I am going to be waiting around for her while she has her own fun and we suffer? Or is this a normal type statement?
