I decided not to go along. My D was ok with my decision not to go. My WW expected me to be there but I am doing a NC with her so I really did not want to be with her and pretend to be a family at this time. My D will tell me if she mentioned my absence. I assume she was relieved though. Not sure if it was right or wrong not to go along, but it felt right for me.
Honestly, this is disappointing.
Dont sacrifice your ability as a parent in order to avoid your WW. Being a great parent is ATTRACTIVE. And going to this is a way to exhibit your changes.
Dont do or not do something because of the way it feels. Choose your actions based on logic and whether it moves you towards you goal.
That said - what are your goals? Did staying home help you to move closer to them?
