Yesterday, I had to make an appointment for the doctors. I texted my W for her to pick up the kids from school. No reply for a while. She texts me back she cant, she is taking the day off work to go shopping with her mom. I couldn't believe it, I reach out to her and this is what I get. So I had to rush and get the kids and rush to the doctors. I had some symptoms that could be nothing or could be something bad, Doctor said not to worry at this point. It all worked out.
My Doctor is in the city I grew up in and I showed my kids around to some of my favorite spots and took some pictures. On the way home we stopped to eat at a place on the side of the highway. W texts me she is near by. So I tell her where we were and invite her to meet us, She agrees.
She was happy and in a good mood, was happy to see me taking good care of the kids. It was a good visit.
We get home and kids go to bed, and I don't feel like going to the basement so I tell her I was going out. She asks where are you going? I just said to get rid of some stuff to the donation box
I left and was out longer then needed. I needed to shake things up a bit, I am glad I thought about going out. I come back and show her a couple things I picked up for the kids stockings.
In the morning W is up and she wants to talk about gifts and kids birthday ect. So Its an other sitch where I am looking at her in her eyes and listening. I have heard this tip on here. and I can see she is enjoying it, were laughing about something. I can't even concentrate because of my attraction to her but I see her laugh so I do. I feel that spark and chemistry again and she starts to put her hand on her neck and nervously on her shoulder. I mention that I will look into something else to do on New years with the kids seeing as how the deal fell through with the water park. She was ok with that.
I had to leave so I said good bye to the kids and her and left for work.
At work W texts me right away about our kid want presents now and she asks how my interview for the promotion went. There it is what I have been asking about, how to get her to ask something about me and not the kids. I think its very positive but there could be an angle, the more money I make the more she can get. So I wait till lunch to reply, and she replies back with three texts in a row, she was supportive about the interview and concerned with our kid want to open presents and that she will be going to the gym tonight and pick up a gift while she is out. I just said ok see you when I get back from taking the kids to their event. She replies that she might see me before that as she plans on eating at home first.
I read all this as positive. Do what works, time to get my best clothes on after I get home from work, to look my best.
One day at a time.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016