Sandi, I would find myself following her lead earlier on. If she would be extra nice, I would too. If she would open up, same for me. When I would do anything like that she would pull away. I know, makes sense now but at the time I couldn't grasp the concept and put it in place on my own sitch.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home