Thanks
Time and GAL really dose help. Its the things like making a decision on selling the house or what to do with it. These are the difficult things, when you are doing your best to leave them behind, and do your own thing the spectre of it hangs over you, i have my D17 living with me and i am responsible for her as well.
At this stage I dont really want to have anything to do with WAW WW i dont even want to talk to her.
Detatching is very difficult and when you do feel strong about it it is quite empowering, you get your confidence back and your personality starts to come back. I am at that stage now, i know i can live without her.


H 50
W 46
T 31
M 24
EA 11.11.15
PA not sure.
Dx3
Separated 5.12.15 (not legally)