Thanks Cali, When I told her if she D'd me I could not handle her staying in the house I also told her I did not want her to choose to stay in the M bc she has no where to live.

I hope and pray she has a eureka moment!

Her plan is going to need to include professional individual help.

I am sad but I have a real sense of peace about the whole thing. I've been imagining my life without her and it's good. I think the 3 weeks after the D until she moves out will be easier then the next week.


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place