Typically they have it all plotted out in their kinds exactly how things will go, we never know this because it's nothing but mind reading attempts.... As lon as things are on their schedule it is smooth sailing, once a variable gets out of line... Is not playing the role written, OM not playing the role written, financials not being as they hoped they will start actin up and pouting. There has to be a huge sense of ... Uh oh, this is real and it's not what I expected it to be type eureka moment before there is movement
You are all up in her head and her plans but basically in the dark and its limbo .... Focus on what you want and need.... It's not her the way she is, even if she told you she did not want to D at this point it would be due to something not falling in line, set your boundaries and hold to them.