Fogg, you are so right. In the past, when she would get like this I would make myself very vulnerable. I think that would actually point it out to her how she is acting and then back off?

At this point I am not reacting to it at all. Just going about with my business and letting her do whatever it is that she does.the only way I would even acknowledge it is if the words, I'm sorry, let's talk about us, I made a mistake... Something of that sort came out of her mouth. I'm defiantly not expecting that so no sense even thinking about it. But even if that did happen, I think I would need a few days to gather my thoughts and see what I want in life before I could even respond.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home