Hey Sandi- In her head she believes I want this D too. She has actually said this to me. If I want it too then it eliminates her taking the blame for the D going through.
Turns out she was bluffing. Later in the evening she came to me, told me she looked at an apartment but it wasn't available until Jan 5th. She asked if she could stay til then. I said she could. She paid an application fee and deposit on it. D4 said "our new place has a pool". I looked at them online. I'm not sure how she's going to afford anything more than a 1 bed/1 bath. The 2 bedroom apts are almost as much as our mortgage. Rental pricing is ridiculous in our city. Not my problem.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place