Ok, he called me again this morning and was somewhat pleasant. Saying how he has been these past few months is not how he wants to be. I said I wasn't sure what was gonna happen in the future. Right now I'm just trying to find a place in the city we are currently in and then maybe after that I could go upstate or maybe move overseas. Don't know anything yet.
He called me about an hour later. Completely changed his tune. Asking me where this idea to go upstate came from. Ranted about money. I've grown accustomed to him always figuring things out, but it's not gonna be like that anymore. He basically wants me to move to Europe next month. Tuesday when he called he started by saying he didn't want us to go abroad, but that he would be there up to 9 days a month. He asked me if that made me feel better about going and I guess he wasn't expecting me to say not really. I'm just so used to parenting solo, so I don't think about it. Maybe all this Mr Nice guy was because he thought he would get his way. He wants to file for divorce when he come back for Christmas. Said its been 4 months and nothing has happened. He needs it to move on.
I'm freaking out. Standing on the street in tears. Have to pick up my D in less than an hour.
