LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (6)

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Hey Trumpet- yes she has always passed blame. She has very rarely ever taken responsibility for herself, actions or words. Until recently I have accepted this blame. Here's a great example. She says I ended our M last year when I was unfaithful so what she has been doing isn't wrong because she doesn't feel we are M. However, she told me when she met her first A she told him to leave her alone bc she was M. She also continued to call me her H and refer to herself as my W. It wasn't until her 2nd A that she came up with this idea that our M ended over a year ago.