Thanks for asking about my sitch. You can learn a lot from other threads To answer your questions:
Status now is we are separated with out a separation agreement. We both live in the same house with two small kids. W needs the house to sell to be able to move on but has agreed to let me get myself financially ready before the house sells.
This has given me more time to DB. And to show that I am a H she would be crazy to leave.
Hope things are going better for you?
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016