He moved out. Time to take the focus away from him. Should you be upbeat and positive? Yes, but it is the WHY that you should focus on.
You should keep a high PMA because your life is so packed with good things you dont have the opportunity to be depressed.
Should H see you happy all the time? No idea, because it does not matter right now what he thinks when he sees you. It does not matter what he thinks when he is not with you either.
This is a long, slow process. It will be longer and slower the more you shine the light on him.
If you are feeling sad, that means you are not pampering yourself enough. You are not meeting your own needs enough.
If you focus on yourself and your life, you become stronger and happier. And you are already on that path! When you become stronger and happier, he cant help but notice. And what fool would leave a strong, happy woman (with a full time job, lol)
Buy the bag, see the show, spoil your D. Not for him, FOR YOU!
You are already doing so many things right. Just try to stop your thoughts when they move toward him and think of you. I know it is SOOO hard. You can do it.
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
