Keeping the door cracked

[beckyb]

Spoke to DB coach today. Here are some take aways: it's ok to feel a little hopeful. It keeps my heart open. I handled the tax issue well by not dictating how it would be paid. But said I need to document the agreement. I need to communicate a little more in a friendly but detached way. I was recently given a cool airplane calendar that H would like. I'm going to give it to him this weekend.

I am still waiting for attorney to finish settlement proposal. Now I'm thinking it's getting very close to Christmas and I might wait to send it. I don't want to set the wrong tone. Plus things are difficult enough for me right now. IDK.