Thanks to Sandi, I'm burning through Coach's posts. Coach and his W (Greek) were on this board years ago. From what I've been able to grasp. Greek left and Coach attracted her back through respect, space and living his life.... If this is not accurate please let me know.

11/11/12
afa states
Quote:
"It sounds good and it might be something which could re-ignite the flame."


Coach states
Quote:
"Flame = Fire.

Fire = Fuel (common values/goals/love/desires) + Oxygen (space,boundaries) + Heat (attraction)

Women don't love men they can't respect. Being someones second choice has consequences. Be in charge of your actions. Too many confuse patience with time, patience is a mindset. Taking healthy actions requires no patience. Choose to thrive thru this instead of holding on to survive. Your sitch can change quickly when you start a fire in your life."


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015