Can ALL marriages be saved Vol. 3

[mahhhty]

Thank you for that quote. That really resonates with me. However I don't like hearing that things won't be better in a year. Haha.

Well... Lets think. In a year, I'm now in the best physical shape of my life (since high school), I've kayaked over 65 days on the water (more than the last three years combined), I'm starting a business (which is my dream), I'm getting back to my old cocky (not stupid cocky but playful) confident self, my business will enable (when I can quit the day job) to be with the kids everyday all summer long, I'm a much better Dad and most importantly my kids and I have the best relationships we've had in their lives.

The downside is that I miss her and my family. But I don't miss what we had at the end. I miss the best times, which is also not realistic. I still seeing dating other woman as an issue.

So... That is me. That doesn't mean that will be you. But things are much better in my life. Even the part she is involved with is better (not as much heavy divorce drama).