Thanks otw!
Originally Posted By: otw

Giving him the money will not make him see he was wrong. He asked you because he knew you always gave everything. That is not your position to fill anymore, if he wants that from you he needs everything that comes with it and he needs to tell you that also.

That is what I need to keep telling myself. I am no longer the giving tree (that was a children's book) I will give him the world, if he was a loving, present, monogamous husband.


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!