So i feel a lot better today. I have no control over anything that happens in her life except myself. I will not bring anything up to her. I did speak with the kids more last night. I apologized to them that they have to go through this situation. I know they are not happy with this mess. I know they dont like going to her house, i know they want to stay with me, but are afraid to hurt her feelings.
I tried to explain that they need to be heard and make sure their feelings are known. I told them i can not be the only one to know these things and cant change anything by myself. They need to talk to their mom as well. i told them that I am willing to help. D7 wants to knw why they cant decide what they want to do. I told her they can but we all need to talk about things.
I do believe that right now W would be fine with them being with me more but she would not like the way it would make her look to others.
I am going to find someone to try and get the kids to speak with and then W and i can meet with person individually. I can not let this bother them.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
