Thanks Sandi.
Early on, I was in super H mode. Pretty much did everything I'm not supposed to do. Now, the changes are for me.
I think I detached and GAL'd too much, to the point of ignoring her. There is a lot written here about keeping it "neighborly". That's what I'm doing now. Pleasant and cordial.
The hardest part of this for me is to have no expectations.
And even though it's been a while now since BD, the suddenness of it still hurts.


Me-40's
W- 40's
Married 22, Together 29
BD#1- 6/15 W needs space
BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16
Still both home, but not for long