Wait in the home or move out?

[runn79r]

Financing of the home is currently 50/50. We have all finances split and divided where needed. My contribution is the equivalent to what she would collect in rent on the suite or about the same as what it will cost me to move out so there is no financial advantage or disadvantage.

It actually makes no difference to me if I move out or not. I've committed to working on myself and not getting into another relationship so I don't need the space/separation.

Staying makes things easier for my daughter and on us for juggling schedules and commitments. The only potential advantage to moving out would be that reality hits her of how difficult co-parenting will be when we are in a different space and the loss of comfort knowing that I'm in the house and we can rely on each other when needed.

Moving out may in fact push her to move in with the OM sooner as she would lose some sense of security.

So take me at my word, I haven't made up my mind either way. I'm genuinely looking for insight and advice on positioning to leave the door open to reconciliation.