i know i shouldn't obsess and that I need to just realize and accept that he chose both of our paths with what he did and i need to move on.
Agreed. But this doesnt just happen. If I say "dont think about XYZ", the first thing you are going to do is.....think about XYZ.
So, how do you get your mind off of XYZ? Think about something else.
Thats the beauty of the GAL activities. You immerse your mind in new activities and new friendships and your mind doesnt have the capacity to think about XYZ.
