Wife wants to separate at end of school year

[Bhuda1]

The weekend in Detroit was just like any other weekend in recent weeks. Nothing new. I see no change in w behaviour. I'm starting to get frustrated again.

I would like some advice on how can I really go dark when we live in the same house, while keeping the r problems away from my boys. I am sure they are oblivious to what's happening.

There is absolutely no discussion about the marriage. I will not initiate the conversation, but I am fearful, based on her history, that the discussion will not arise until d-day at the end of the school year.

I have decided to not share the bed any longer. I am now making excuses to not be home as much during the times my wife is home. I am spending more evenings at my office, just to get away from my spouse. I want to get a life, but my circle of friends are all married and I am keeping my sitch to myself.

I have a full gym in my basement so getting a gym membership is impracticle and would be a waste of money. The hockey schedule keeps me busy most nights and weekends so I have very little down time for anything else.

My 180 does not seem to be working. In fact I think she is enjoying the lack of interaction. I even have suspicions now that there may be another M in her life. i may be jumping to conclusions but she seems to be guarded when reading emails and text messages. I keep my distance and act as if I don't care who is sending her messages.

I am looking for guidance from other D.B's. Any recommendations will be appreciated.