The answer I'm thinking of sending would be: " W. Thanks for the invitation.If S wants to go he can. I hope he does for you. As for me no thanks." I just don't get that she hasn't noticed I no longer ring her, kiss/ hug her or text. The only contact has been financial mails. She is the only one who rings and my answers are always vague when she wants to know about my life and I always end the call asap. After her play acting this weekend all I want to do is try to get her out of my head as much as possible. I don't want to know what she is doing or thinking at the moment, she's gone to a new life with OM. I'm still trying to rebuild mine. It has only been two months. I think she still wants to behave like we did at S's birthday but I was still in shock. (It was only 9 days sfter leaving) of course I love her, I wish I didn't, but I can't meet up and act like nothing is different. Have the same lunch as last year!
