Last time i txt her i told her " can i pickup my daughters on such date and return them on such hour, thanks, i didnt get a response. She doesnt want me to have them until a judge decides something because she thinks " i will steam the girls and keep them because there is no court order" that's an insult to me. Everytime i txt her she would say i was harassing her and scaring her. So i just stopped completely before she uses anything against me when it comes to going to court. I really hope my L can convince her after she gets served. That's my last hope if not i will have to keep waiting patiently like ive had until court date jan 6.
The hate gets stronger as weeks progress. I now rarely even look her up on facebook because i despite seeing her face. I just want to call her a "female dog" . But at the same time i want this to work out. weird ? Ive always been patient my entire life but this situation is really testing me and getting the best out of me. But again , it's awesome living alone. Today i forgot to take out the trash, and there was no problem what so ever
So - she herself is doing exactly what she says she is afraid that you would do - keeping the kids since there is no court order. That's bizarre.
Have you asked her how come she thinks it is okay for her to do this, while stating it would be wrong for you to do it?
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
