NateG, intel is still useful, even if all it provides is a way to test our spouses answers. As a scientist I've been trained to think all data is good data.
The trick is to not become so obsessed with gathering Intel that we forget our goals. If we obsess to the point we neglect our personal growth, Intel gathering becomes counter productive.
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou