My first option is to say simply "Sorry, I cant." This is my favorite

My second option is what i WANT to say "H, you cant run to me when you are in trouble. You fired me, remember?"

My third option is to tell him to ask his girlfriend.

My 4th option, and the one I am dying to say is YES.

I want to say yes because I am scared saying no will send him to OW. Or make him mad at me. or ruin all chances of R.

If this was someone else's thread and they had these fears I would say, He is already with OW. He is allowed to be mad at me and me not fixing his issues is not what is preventing R. His behavior is preventing R and if I give him money I am encouraging his behavior.

Right? Go with option 1?????

Last edited by Mona52; 12/10/15 03:07 AM.
Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!