It happened. I have been trying to prepare myself and I was sure I was strong and ready. I'm not strong. I am about to cave into his demands.
My D wants to throw a new years party. She needs adult supervision. I am going out new years.
She asked H if he would supervise. He replied, "IDK, I might have plans."
So I sent him a text...
Me: Please reconsider and give me new years. I take care of everything else alone. I dont ask you for help. Let me go out new years.
I sent that at 8 am. At 6 pm he answered which is odd for him. He normally answers my texts immediately.
H: How many kids will be there and will I be the only adult watching over all those teenagers?
(PAUSE FOR A RANT!! I just did this exact thing Saturday! I had a house full of teens and I was the only adult. Seriously. It is not like it is a house full of infants. You dont really have to WATCH teens for crying out loud. But he was not interested in lending a helping hand on Saturday...)
Me: IDK and yes. But they are boring and good. You can sit at the pc all night, maybe watch a show with S12.
3 hours later he answers me. NOW HERE IS WHERE I NEED HELP.
H: I have a huge favor to ask. I will do new years regardless of the answer. Can I borrow $200. Idk when I will be able to pay it back but I'm in trouble.
I did not answer...
H: I need an answer today so I know how to proceed.
OMG, I am dying to say YES
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!