Ok so the cat is out of the bag. Still though, I would recommend damage control. If someone asks you about her, just smile and say you are not sure. Don't engage in bad mouthing her with friends or family. They may try to bait you in as away to help you release your frustrations but I'd recommend showing them quickly that ou won't be sharing every detail with them. Or any details for that matter.
Share the details here if you need to vent.
Things you say now will haunt you later. And people never forgive, even if you do. She will always be the one who "hurt my buddy Nate", know what I mean? Don't give them any ammo to use against her in case things work out later on.
What plans do you have this weekend? Do you have the princess this weekend? What fun stuff can you do?
Yes, at this point, only close family really knows. No friends know much, other than maybe our babysitter, but she's not interested in it, just how we're dealing with D. This weekend, I'm heading out sat night with friends to a local concert and just general guy junk. Friday night going to a piano bar with a F friend who is experiencing something similar and just wants to get out of the house with mutual friends. I'll be plenty busy. I usually have no issue finding things to do. D will be going with W to grandmother's house for the weekend for Christmas baking. I'm going to miss her dealt as she won't have spent much time with me this week.
Me:36 W: 27 D2 T10 M:2.5 Filed D 1/14/16 BD: Sep 15 A Discovered: 11/17/15 She moves out 11/19/15